A man named Bob was walking on a beach in Callifornia. His head was bent in prayer when he heard a big booming voice say to him: "Bob this is the Lord. I have decided that since you have followed me so loyaly and pry ever day, I am going to grant you one wish, any wish u want".
Bob thought for a moment and replied: "Lord I love Hawaii but every time I want to go I have to fly and I really don't like flying, so could you build a bridge from here to Hawaii?".
The lord said: "Bob, that is a very selfish wish. The amount of resources and money that would take to grand it are almost unspeakble. Why don't u think a little harder and come up with a better wish"
So bob thought and thought and finally he said: " ok Lord, I've thought about if and what I really want is to understand women. I want to know everything about them. How they work why they think and feel the way they do. I want to know what they want from me and what they want in life".
The lord then asked "Bob do you want 2 lanes or 4 on that highway?"